Here is the world. Beautiful and terrible things will happen. Don't be afraid.
Frederick Buechner
AP Photo
AP Photo
Last April 27 a massive tornado struck Tuscaloosa, Alabama. My youngest son, Ian, a then freshman at the University of Alabama, took the following picture just moments after the tornado left on its path to further destruction.
A few days ago, I drove the 11 hour and 38 minute drive with Ian back to Tuscaloosa for his sophomore year. (On the road again. Seems to have become my mantra.) Our arrival rekindled many memories for him - not such great memories of his hasty departure from a city without power or water. Of the newly homeless wandering aimlessly. The agonizing search for loved ones.
We returned to the location where he had taken that picture and he took another.
Life does go on. This path through the university quad this day bustles with new and returning students. The first day of the new semester, teachers and students, take on the new year in spite of the anxieties many retain from the frantic aftermath.
My boy included.
New room, new classes, new adventures awaiting.
Of course, this meant I had one of those goodbyes that stab my heart.
"Be good, Ian. Do well. I'll see you sometime - soon."
Awful quiet around here.
New room, new classes, new adventures awaiting.
Of course, this meant I had one of those goodbyes that stab my heart.
"Be good, Ian. Do well. I'll see you sometime - soon."
Awful quiet around here.