Friday, August 5, 2016

Look What I Got!

If God had intended us to follow recipes,
He wouldn’t have given us grandmothers.
Linda Henley



Last Christmas Eve I was slamming egg nog in Austin with my husband and oldest son and daughter-in-law -- the ones that have been married for six years. The middle son and wife were in New York City spending the holiday with youngest son. With my computer perched on the kitchen table, we had them on Facetime while that Bama Sous Chef boy opened his presents from us.

My daughter-in-law put a present in my lap and said it was a good time to open it. I did and found a book, a lovely copy of The Night Before Christmas. We were admiring the beautiful drawings in the book  and as I studied them, my son informed me there was something else in the package.  I turned the pages looking for whatever else might be in there when in desperation he said, "In the package, Mom. Not in the book." 

What I then pulled out made me burst into tears.



As I scanned the room, I saw we were all flowing. When I looked at my sons on the computer screen, they were wiping at their eyes, too. The Crying Family.

I never know how I'm going to react to things. Especially those I'm not expecting.  I like to think I'm someone in control of my emotions. I know I'm a crier and often can't shut that off, but I also have delayed reactions. In grave situations or when something needs to get done, I hold it together for any given length of time. Later, when things settle down, I either fall apart or enjoy the elation, depending on the event. 

As I've waited these months for that little baby to join the world, I've pondered my upcoming response. What kind of grandmother will I be? What will I be thinking when I see that child? Will I react like I'm supposed to? And what might that "supposed to" be?

I needn't have worried. For the other night, I don't think I was thinking. Pure emotion reigned. It was incredible joy.

But not so fast. We did have to wait. Where the first 8 months of that pregnancy flew by, the last four weeks seemed an eternity. Much more so for my daughter-in-law, Chelsea. As I recalled, the last two weeks of pregnancy made me feel it was a permanent condition. That those two weeks of misery were designed to extinguish all my fears and anxieties in regard to childbirth. Chelsea gained that same perspective.

When labor finally, finally began, the grandparents-to-be gathered in the birthing room to wait it out. From early morning until late in the day, poor Chelsea and my son, the worrier,  were stuck with the four of us while she labored, he studied and tended to requested massages, and we entertained ourselves.

Jacob studied the nurse and doctor notes.

Bob yucked it up from the Lazy Boy chair.

Debbie and I covered every subject on Earth.



Just muzzle that man!
When Chelsea reached the pushing stage, the old folks left the room and huddled in a waiting room. Or walked laps around the hospital. Or ate tacos from the cafeteria. Or who knows what else. Middle son arrived after tending the animals left at home. (New daughter-in-law, Leigh, was out of town for work and most unhappy she was missing it. Chef boy far away and working as well.)

Finally, our phones all dinged. Oh, my, goodness.


Bingo! We all had to get busy.





The waiting world now informed of our good news.

"The baby is here!"

We began another waiting game. After the doctor put Chelsea back together, the hospital declared The Golden Hour where only the new parents were with the baby. Seriously? Banished with only our phone photo in hand to sustain us, we took to the hospital parking lot for some good old-fashioned Tailgating. 



Cheers!

As the "Golden Hour" moved into its third hour, we were lagging. Our champagne buzzes long subsided, we were more than ready when we got the message to come on down the hall. And then,



I don't know why I worried about my reaction. Sheer joy escaped unaided. 

We counted fingers and toes.




And then just looked at this beautiful child, who studied us with equal wonder.

 Yes, it's a girl! 
After three brothers and three sons, I get a girl. 


The next day we spent a little time getting to know her.

Uncle Jordan

Grandpa Bob

 And as the days go by, we gaze in awe.

Thank you, Debbie, for sharing this one with us.

Of course, we retrieved Jacob's baby photos from the closet and wondered if we could see her daddy in her.
Jacob
Jacob
Or this one I have of her beautiful mama.
Chelsea

After much consideration, I'm thinking she looks like Maisy Grace.



Welcome to the world, sweet girl. 

I don't know if I know how to be a girl Grandma, but I'm thinking I'll let Maisy teach me. Meantime, we'll just hang.



35 comments:

  1. Beautiful, wonderful, gorgeous, lovely, PERFECT!!!!
    Ms. Maisy Grace will indeed teach you everything you need to know.
    Big, huge congratulations!

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    1. So sorry for the delay. Thank you, thank you for you lovely comments. Things are going well with baby.

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  2. CONGRATULATIONS to all the andersons. just beautiful! and joyful! and yeah, girls ROCK!!

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    1. Looking forward to that "girl" thing. So far, the clothes are too cute. And the headbands.

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  3. Congratulations! This is wonderful! You're going to spoil this one, as you should. Hugs to all of you. See you soon.

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    1. Yes, looking forward to our gathering. And I can already see how the spoiling can occur.

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  4. Congratulations! This is wonderful! You're going to spoil this one, as you should. Hugs to all of you. See you soon.

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  5. Wow! You got a grand one. I think she looks like both those baby pictures!

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  6. Too much fun, I am six times grandpa. The first I wasn't sure I liked as well, there is vanity in age.now that is all I brag about

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    1. I can see how that goes. Difficult to not gloat and constantly share her photos. Been most fun so far.

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  7. Best. Gift. Ever. She will indeed teach you how to be a grandma. Just watch, listen, love, and do stuff together.

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    1. I will follow your advice. Watch. Listen. Love. and Definitely will do stuff.

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  8. Like unbridled joy, it sounds to me. Congratulations to you, Julie - pretty wonderful to have a girl as your first grand baby!

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    1. I'm thrilled, to say the least. The girl part is good so far. Perhaps I'll finally have to learn how to do hair.

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  9. BIG CONGRATULATIONS! You will handle it just perfect. She is such a cutie. I have four grand girls and they teach you. Just love her the rest will fall in place.

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    1. Thank you for the advice. Sounds like it will be good to follow. I will let her teach me and I already love her so that was very easy. Thanks for your comments.

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  10. How absolutely adorable! And wonderful! Congratulations to everyone. :-)

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  11. Beautiful baby, beautiful family, beautiful post. Congratulations to all!!

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  12. What a welcoming party! You did a lovely job documenting one of life's lovelier moments.

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    1. Truly fun. And something I could never imagine happening. How has the time gone so quickly. I was just the one having the babies.

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  13. Oh precious, precious, precious!!!!!! Congratulations on your beautiful baby granddaughter! Just lovely. :)

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    1. Thank you. She is precious. And I never knew how easy it would be to say that.

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  14. I'm late to the party, but that's okay, because you've got a lifetime of stories to share about Maisy Grace. Congratulations to ALL of you! I'm very happy for you.
    I hope she'll be a girly girl - just for you. :)

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    1. Thanks, Anita. Will be interesting to see who she becomes.

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  15. Wonderful. And our sons were born in a rural hospital in the seventies where fathers were not allowed to be in the room. How sad...:(

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  16. Congratulations. She is beautiful and everyone looks so happy. Lovely. Beckie

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  17. I'm just now reading this from start to finish. You've made me cry. So happy for all of you. Maisy is in for a lovely life with all these people to help her along. I can hardly wait to hear your stories about her and about being her grandma. What will you be called?

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  18. Oh Julie.. huge congratulations. She's just beautiful! I'm so happy for you.. and more than a tad envious. ;) I look forward to seeing Maisy in upcoming posts. :) :)

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  19. I'm visiting from Deb and have tears in my eyes. Being a grandma and empathizing will do that to you. Maisy is perfect, of course. Enjoy this new little person in your life.

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  20. Congratulations and how Wonderful! Best wishes to the happy family; love the photos and the baby...give her a smoooochhhh for me.

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  21. Get your nose out of that book, Julie, and write another post! :)

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  22. Here I am exactly 6 months later. How is Miss Sweetness doing?

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